Can someone please explain to me why the Christmas cards that are coming to our door are frequently addressed to “Ben and Jenn Hislastname”? And I don’t mean this in a rant sort of way (I have ranted before and I am not so angry about it anymore). I just find it weird. These aren’t from my grandmother or anything – these are our contemporaries, many of whom also come from two surname households. I don’t think there is an intended, subtle message in it for me, but I am not sure why it happens.